Let's face it: the life sure isn't always sun shines and rainbows. Some people get so down they find it challenging to even dream of a better life and future. They are stuck in their loop, victims of their environment and talked down by people around them.

Some really have been victims. Their heart is gold, but bad circumstances and accidents have made them suffer so much.

Many of us get trapped into our own mind listening to the everlasting story of our fears, judgments, and predictions of failure. What if this, what if that, better just stay still and not care at all.

Why haven't I changed already?

There is also something else common to many of us.

If we all had a chance to change our lives, push all bad things in our life away and start reconstructing ourselves and our lives to fit our needs, hopes and goals, we would.

Why won't we though? Why won't we just stop, say this is enough, and start the change?

When you're long enough in the same situation and environment, you get used to it, and you actually grow into it. And things you get used to as certainties, are like bad habits; even if you'd change the direction for a while, so often you'll find yourself from where you left.

Furthermore, it's sadly really typical to feel the urge to change only after already hitting the rock-bottom. When things seem okay, or bearable, people tend to keep on going and surviving. Only after bigger mental or physical catastrophes many start to wonder: "okay, this isn't working, I need to change things". These revelations happen kind of somewhat too late.

Oh, how irritating and familiar that is for many.

Likewise it is seemingly unfamiliar to start improving and making huge changes in life, when life feels okay and the spirit is well-adjusted. It's then, when it might be difficult to find areas of improvement, but when the change would be much easier.

Either the case, change is relatively easy, when you do it with someone who carries out positive life changes professionally.

What happens after changing for better?

I have close people who talk a lot of their "old me's". What they used to be. And they always add how happy and grateful they are for not being that person and in that past situation anymore.

What did they have in common to make the change happen?

They all in their own ways decided that's it, I'm not tolerating this anymore, I deserve better, I want to fix myself and my life, because this isn't me and this isn't the life I want. They had and have that flaming sparkle in their hearts.

You must have it too. Even if you wouldn't recognize it now.. you have it.

Don't focus on what once was, it's gone already and it's only in your head. Focus on this moment and on what you want to be during becoming days, weeks, months and years. One seemingly tiny step can turn into a whole new, brighter and better life.

Maybe you have tried already something like this, but it didn't bring you results?

I have done it too: searching answers everywhere so many times thinking now I finally found it... but it never lasted.

Now things are different. The strategies which don't work have been washed away.

And I now have better strategies to give myself and yourself lasting results.

My life is quite okay for me already -illusion

Familiar hell feels safer than unknown free future. Our brains prefer the same, old, and familiar, as learning new things consume slightly more energy and demands building new neural pathways.

We can be our best friends, and our worst enemies, in so many ways.

Thing is, do you have the will to get up from this familiar and still chair of life you've been sitting on so long, and the motivation to see what amazing things are waiting for you behind the curtains of  life you've yet to explore and to gain its rewards reserved for you!

Maybe you'd wish:

Serenity and peace of mind? Got it!

Courage, means to push forward and success? Got it!

To use your mind to achieve whatever you desire? Got it!

To get rid of negative matters in your life? Got it!

More love and kindness into your life? Got it!

To attract positiveness and abundance in your life? Got it!

To be confident, secure and self-assured? Got it!

All of the above? Got it!

How do you know I could change to achieve better life?

Because there are no limit or barriers preventing you from getting what you want. It may seem like it, but they're in your mind.

And that's not your fault.

It's just that we aren't taught at schools about our thoughts, emotions, structure of motivation, habits, beliefs, conscious and subconscious mind.

About all things that really matter about whether we feel able or unable, happy or sad, on the move or stuck.

So often our egos claim we have to manage and do things alone without help. But what if there was someone who already knew about the challenge you have, and this someone could point you to the solution right away. The amount of errors, time and anxiousness it would spare us from is huge. If we'd just jump out of the analysis crisis, stepped the step and took the action, we would have traveled already so far.

Asking and accepting help is a brave and admirable declaration of wanting to grow and develop.

Letting someone, who's already walked the path and experienced traps and obstacles on the way, guide you to stay and advance on your path is a wise and efficient choice for you.

How do we begin and proceed?

You can bring an infinite number of topics to a coaching session. You may seek coaching when you are ready to overcome any obstacles you are facing. It will help you to get unstuck and grow to level up your life.

• Begin by booking a free call appointment.
• Tell honestly what it is you're going through, and what would you desire.
• No need to hide. Mikko is a caring, understanding and empathetic coach, so there's nothing you would need to hide. He'll value your secrecy and whatever you tell, will stay between you and him.
• If you get chosen to a program, you will get an email soon.
• You'll have a new call to plan a schedule for your new better life to emerge.
• Start expecting amazingly quick positive results.

It's understandable and humane to have doubts: "sounds too easy!", "sounds too good!", or "can this really work?".

I encourage you to drop overthinking, and just contact me.

It doesn't matter where you come from, where you are in your life, or what is your goal; as they matter to you, they matter to me too.

You will be provided more detailed information about the program, and we can chat as long as you feel content and confident to jump onto this chariot, which will quite sure be the supporting power boost you've sought for.

Book a call or write, both are great options to find out more. You will then know more, and be sure, what is your next step in your life.

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